{"id":483,"date":"2019-01-23T11:46:39","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T10:46:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lifesfinest.pl\/niespodziewajki\/"},"modified":"2019-01-24T13:40:06","modified_gmt":"2019-01-24T12:40:06","slug":"a-welcome-surprise","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/lifesfinest.pl\/en\/a-welcome-surprise\/","title":{"rendered":"A Welcome Surprise"},"content":{"rendered":"

[vc_row css_animation=”” row_type=”row” use_row_as_full_screen_section=”no” type=”full_width” angled_section=”no” text_align=”left” background_image_as_pattern=”without_pattern”][vc_column][vc_column_text]This is the place where you can embrace your unplanned pregnancy you might have just found out about.<\/p>\n

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You might be reading these words overcome by mixed feelings or even fears for yourself and your future.<\/p>\n

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Make yourself at home, sit back and read a few \u201cpostcards\u201d written especially for you so that you can leave this website a bit more cheerful and confident.<\/p>\n

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It is estimated that more than a third of the general population was born as a result of a surprise of unplanned pregnancy. I believe I was one of those people and so was my husband \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n

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So now also you\u2019ve won this life-lottery. You have been chosen to be this tiny person\u2019s mom. It might sound daunting now.<\/p>\n

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Please, read the encouraging words below and take heart![\/vc_column_text]

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\n\n\t \n 1 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]Your Little One is like a renowned guest who comes unannounced. It is as if someone you love dearly knocked on your door in the middle of the night. You open your door hesitant, but once you\u2019ve broken the ice you enjoy their presence immensely.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 2 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]How beautiful is the Little body being formed in your womb! You don\u2019t even have to control the process as it unfolds, step by step, even while you\u2019re asleep. You\u2019re full of life.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 3 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]You have an entire 8.5 months to put things together for his\/her arrival. That\u2019s plenty of time. Think about all the wonderful things you can now buy and prepare. That\u2019s also plenty of time to calm down and feel joy, to move house\u2026[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 4 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]There\u2019s a beautiful saying in Polish: \u201ca baby is born with a loaf of bread\u201d meaning that even if your financial situation is difficult at the time of conception, things will get better in inexplicable ways upon the birth of the baby. A few of my friends have lived through such an experience.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 5 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]The most beautiful things in life are not the ones we have planned. Many beautiful moments exceed our expectations. Children are no different.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 6 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]This child is now calm, trusting and holding on to you, he\/she\u2019s feeling warm and cosy. You too should get warm under a blanket, mommies deserve their break.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

\n\n\t \n 7 <\/span>\n<\/span>\n\n \n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n <\/span>\n<\/span>\n<\/h4>\n
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\n [vc_column_text]Even if you weren\u2019t planning on becoming a mom now, this child has chosen you for his mom now. You are the only one who can bring them to this world.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

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\n [vc_column_text]Perhaps the little hands that grow and extend slowly, inch by inch, will be the ones to hold you one day when you\u2019re old and frail.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

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\n [vc_column_text]Think about how fun it will be to discover your traits in this tiny human being. Think about a few good-looking features you have. Chances are, this baby is lucky to have inherited a few of them. You will know when you see him\/her.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

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\n [vc_column_text]You might be feeling scared or even panicked, embarrassed. These emotions do not make you unfit to embrace your role of mom. Not at all!! Most women experience them. These emotions will come and go.[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div>

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\n [vc_column_text]A drifting thought of the shiny sequins on my skirt<\/em><\/p>\n

A little wine, yes, perhaps that, too<\/em><\/p>\n

Accompanied by gentle whispers, a moment of frenzy<\/em><\/p>\n

That left me quickly<\/em><\/p>\n

With a spinning head<\/em><\/p>\n

And life went on. <\/em><\/p>\n

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Life. On.<\/em><\/p>\n

Yes, it was all on to something, someone. <\/em><\/p>\n

It was the stuff you\u2019re made of, child<\/em><\/p>\n

That started to pervade me<\/em><\/p>\n

A sense of purpose hidden in the flesh<\/em><\/p>\n

The mystery of the glittery sequins and the growing cells<\/em><\/p>\n

You, Them, Both<\/em><\/p>\n

Combined<\/em><\/p>\n

Humming the hymn <\/em><\/p>\n

Of creation<\/em>[\/vc_column_text] <\/div>\n<\/div><\/div>

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